Making Someone Wait And Still Have Them Wanting You

(Let's Talk Relationship) If you're trying to build a more "serious" relationship with someone rushing to sleep with them is NOT the move. By not falling and tripping into their arms, and they still chase you, will prove that they are willing to wait for you no matter how long it takes.

If you pay attention, you'll see that that person will become all the more determined to get you. The more resistance you put up and delay giving up the goods, the more determined they will become to make you theirs. Try the "hard to get" attitude and watch how more attractive you'll become to them. Also, by waiting and not giving in and jumping into the bed with them right away, you automatically give yourself that extra time to make up your mind about that person to even know if they're even worth it. (I'm Just Saying)

I want you to try and “provoke” someone to come after you, instead of chasing them away from you. The same is true when it comes to getting someone to commit. Non of that needy pushy shit tho. If you are pushing for a commitment, even if they have every intention of marrying you, they will prolong making that commit because you are constantly pushing for it.

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Females Who Mental/Verbal/Emotional Their Partners

(Let's Talk Relationship) I'm about to flip the fucking script, I just want to put it out there that men are not the only abusers in a relationship. Women have a way to make you doubt your own sanity. <-----This I know. And this very problem people tend to ignore can really cripple their partner's self-worth.

Real talk...nobody has the right to abuse anyone else, EVER.

Dudes be getting shit fucked up and they don't know that he/she is mentally/verbally/emotionally abusing them. Cause they throw that "I'm a man" around that it can't be done to them. Their are major signs to watch our for to know that abuse is taking place. I don't mean physical either.

PAY ATTENTION ----->

- she ignored your feelings
- she withhold approval, appreciation or affection as punishment
- she play mind games on you
- she threaten to leave you or tell you to leave
- she harass you about affairs she imagines you are having
- SMDamnH she say that she will kill herself if you leave her, knowing that she's playing fucking games.
- disrespect you
- manipulate you with lies and contradictions
- hurt you especially when you are down

You know there's something wrong with the picture if she got you feeling ---->

- nervous around her
- afraid of disagreeing with her
- make you feel ashamed, embarrassed or humiliated
- make you feel like you are wrong, stupid, crazy, worthless, or inadequate
- feel that nothing is ever good enough for her

Fellas/Ladies <---- (whatever floats your boat) with all the powers vested in me, I will get you through it all. Just pay attention to signs that you see above and trust me, if you're going through the struggle...leave your current situation quick in sake of your sanity.

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New Music: Teairra Mari feat. 2 Chainz 'U Did That' (Remix)

(New Music) Rapper 2 Chainz jumps on the remix to Teairra Mari current single...

 

Yay or Nay? You be the judge...

Having Stability In Your Relationship

(Let's Talk Relationship) We all know relationships are very important in everyone’s life. If you have traumatic love relationships when you are young, you’ll face tragic future situations.

I advise you to study the meaning of dreams about love because they are very simple, and this precious knowledge will save your life. Learn everything you can about the person you love before getting involved. Also learn everything you can about yourself.

We all need stability, good relationships can improve your life in all aspects, strengthening your health, your mind and your connections with others as well. However, it can also be one of the greatest drains if the relationship is not working. Trust me I know what I'm talking about...PAY ATTENTION...Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you get back. Love and relationships take work, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and change through life as a team.

Real talk,  when you are in a relationship, it helps to agree on a common goal so that you can encourage each other even in the lowest of times. Someone told me that shared goals give you a sense of greater purpose, partnership, and mutual respect. <----I AGREE. I believe that in order to have a more of a stable relationship, you need to be comfortable with talking to each other. That's my opinion.

We all know that things won’t always be easy but, relationships will only work when both parties are open to communication and are understanding of what the other is going through.

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Chris Brown & RiRi Seeing Eachother On The Low???

(Let's Talk About It) There's rumors about R&B singer Chris Brown and Rihanna are hooking up since splitting up three years ago after Chris’ assault on the songstress, but now the two are allegedly seeing each other again.

Frankly, who's gives a flying fuck what they do. It's their business. Even if it is true, so damn what. People is really making a big thing about these two hooking back up tho. SMDamnH... It's non of anyone's business who they hook up with.

She didn't learn her lesson, OH WELLLLLL...it's her lyfe at the end of the day. A music industry exec says…the platinum-selling singer “We Found Love” singer and Breezy “meet up very casually. She comes to see him anytime she’s in L.A. They can’t get enough of each other. 

If she hasn't, she gon learn today....*Kevin Hart's voice* about getting back with Chris. But really tho, who are we to judge or say anything about what they got going on?

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SMFH Files: WOMAN BREASTFEEDS CAT

(SMFH Files) NAHHHH B!!!! This crazy ass Asian woman is really breastfeeding her damn cat. I don't know how to feel about this tho. fuck is wrong with people? SMDamnH...

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Azealia Banks Signs To Universal Records

(Entertaining News) Harlem's MC, Azealia Banks who's only 20 years young has announced that she officially signed on the dotted lines with Universal Records.
Her debut album, is set for a May or June release. Azealia singles “212”, “Liquorice” and “NEEDSUMLUV” which some of you might be familir with has landed her the deal.

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