Bastards of The Universe

I'm not here to judge, but it bothers me a great deal that everyday women are having babies out of wedlock and thinks that's its OK. With the promises of the babies father going to marry, be there, and even provide for them is why most choose not to abort the pregnancy. When it's too late and they realize that they were under false pretenses and life already began to grow. 9 out of 10 mothers to be already know what the "sperm donor" intentions are by the relationship that they're in.

I was fortunate enough to grow up with both parents in the household. To me personally that was a blessing. Childless fathers seems to fall under peer pressure and I'm not talking about the peer pressure that's productive, but unproductive, such as gangs, drugs, jail and drinking etc... Most turn to sports and absorb the love of a coach, and become something of themselves while others become a product of their environment. Sadly my cousins became just that. As much as they say a " I grew up without a father and mother, I'm going to be there for my kids," their destiny isn't in there hands and life takes the wrong turn.

Most of the bullshit ass excuses used is " I never had a father around to teach me how to be a man". In which to some extent that's true, only a man can teach their sons how to grow up and be a man. The daughters primarily is missing the security of their father being there, to show them boys are stupid and they will break your heart.

What kills me is the ones who pass judgement on other women who have kids by no good ass niggas, turn around and pretty much do the same.

Women need to know their worth and stop with this having babies out of wedlock raising "bastards" and think that it's okay to do so. I wonder if they ever think about how hard it is out here in the real world raising a "bastard" all alone.

One time making the mistake of bringing a "bastard" in this cruel world is enough to know that number two you should have better judgement and do what's right and fair for you and your "bastard" child. Make the right decision and prevent the mistake from happening all over again.

The court system shouldn't have to force a father to take care for what he created and enjoyed making. Safe sex is a much better way to go. Practice it and that'll be one less "bastard" in the universe.

When a Girl....

When a girl is quiet...millions of things are running in her mind. When a girl is not arguing she is thinking deeply. When a girl looks at u with eyes full of questions...she is wondering how long you will be around. When a girl answers I'm fine after a few seconds...she is not at all fine. When a girl stares at you...she is wondering why you are lying. When a girl lays on your chest...she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a girl wants to see you everyday...she wants to be pampered. When a girl says I love you...she means it. When a girl says I miss you...no one in this world can miss you more than that. Life comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person...Find someone...who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on them, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for someone who...kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of friends. Who constantly reminding you of how much they cares about you and how lucky they are to have you. Who turns to their friends and says "that's her!!!"

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