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Wednesday, April 28, 2010

After driving myself crazy about finding a niche on what my blog foundation should be, and I finally found that niche. Why not blog about what I know best and that's my lifestyle. I'm a proud LESBIAN and have been for most of my life. Maybe I thought that if I write about it a lot it will bring controversy and will not reach a lot of people who wants to be educated about the lifestyle. But guess what? who cares I'm here now and to all my urban gay, lesbians and transgender I'm here to save the day.

At the age 31, I've seen and been through a lot. I first came out at the tender age of 14 and that's when I officially knew that I had found a special place in my heart for girls. Maybe I was born this way and I'm not gonna tell you I wasn't. Especially when I had my very first encounter with a nice little tender girl in kindergarten. Why I still can remember? Well that little young tender girl happened to be my friend till this day. So you do the math.

Again, to all my rainbow beauties I'm here and will not let you down...I promise to entertain the shit out all you...So please get a snack and a drink and get ready for a ride of your life.

COME AND ENTER TAZ WORLD....

Wednesday, April 21, 2010


There's one question that has always bothered me, and that's...why women who provokes men into violence, are quick to call 911? like they have the number on speed dial. Not saying violence is right, cause it's definitely not right in any way. But yes women tend to push all the right buttons to get a reaction from their men, a lot of times the reactions aren't good or even called for. Of course women know that, cause they have the law on their side which is wrong.

Men fuck up, yes we all know this is true, and when they get caught due to being sloppy with their infidelity they give all kinds of excuses before apologizing. Their hands goes up and confesses they were wrong and will never do it again, which of course in most cases is bullshit. Even with that, the woman presses and presses the issue and start going off uncontrollably at the mouth. Best thing for a man to do is walk away, that's when and where the provoking starts. She follows behind and continue to yell and getting in their face, calls him all out of his name and swear to every God she knows that he isn't shit.

Even when going to bed, and he's trying to go to sleep there she goes, turning the light on and pulling back he covers and starts the nagging and cursing. Women can't just leave a situation alone especially when she was the one who was hurt.

So now when he finally loses his composure and grabs her and yokes her up to shut her up and stop antagonizing him, she quickly dial 911 and report being abused by her boyfriend, so now the law gets involved and remove him from the house. Just for her later on take him back...SMH

Stop provoking and pushing buttons when you know damn well the only reason why you're doing it is because you have the law on your side, which ladies is dead wrong.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010






Behind all the ego and pride men tend to put up a front when being concerned or put on the spot. They also forget that they have emotions as well as women. Well, maybe not as much but they certainly do have emotions, whether they show it or not it's there. All it takes is for that right woman to bring it out of them.

If another man looks at their woman, they're feeling some type of way and automatically blame the woman for flirting, when that's not the case. When feel threaten by another man their guard is all the way turnt up, and front as if it's her fault.

OH! and please don't let their woman side eye another man cause automatically they're thinking that the woman wants to fuck the other man. That alone starts a hole nutha argument by itself. Maybe its me but I never know a man to be such jealous creatures, until seeing one of my boys go ape over his girl grabbing a dudes phone just for play, but he took it to whole nutha level and proceeded to physically harm her.

When being wrapped around her finger for some time the "beast" was unleashed when his emotions was toyed with (SO HE THOUGHT). A woman is not going to leave or cheat if she doesn't have a reason to do so, so why men feel threaten when it comes to a simple thing as a look, stare, or a wink???

Sunday, April 18, 2010

He who hesitates is lost.
Proverb

The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others.
Solomon Ibn Gabriol

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
Helen Keller

(1) FINE: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) FIVE MINUTES: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing ususally end in fine.

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!!!

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but non-verbal statement often misundserstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistakes.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not questuion, or faint. Just say you're welcome. ( I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says Thanks alot - that is PURE sacarsm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say you're welcome. that will bring on a "whatever").

(8) Whatever: Is a woman's ways of saying FUCK YOU!

(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "what's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3.

To all women you know it's true!!!