Dear Taz, (The Street Therapist)
1. You're on a roll in losing weight and have made a great achievement in that area thus far, so, dont give up . You didn't say how tall you are, so, maybe for your height you don't have much further to go before you hit an ideal average weight. but, kudos to you for what you have done.
2. One thing I know that dudes like, is a girl that exudes confidence in herself because that shows a lot of emotional strength which guys admire. You don't need to have the perfect body shape either... a somewhat ordinary looking shorty with a good amount of confidence will get a dudes attention.
3. I want to say that there is PLENTY of time ahead of you to have a meaningful friendship/relationship with a dude. You are just starting out on the adventure. The key is to know another person gradually and in a easy comfortable setting. Sometimes dating isn't that conducive for getting to know someone gradually... I always found the dating thing too rushed and too progressive with it moving at lightening speed. It was hard to handle at times.
4. Make yourself attractive physically by working out and using the right makeup, emotionally by gaining confidence in yourself and image, and spiritually by growing in your knowledge and relationship to our Creator; find a good local church that has an active college age Singles Group. These three areas are very important to grow in. Ask God in your quiet times to make you the kind of person he wants you to become and ask for the strength to walk daily uprightly and you'll find that the closer you move to him, the more he will send blessings your way at the right time. This is going to include nice guys who are worthy of getting to know the person you are.
Hope this gives you some insight. Again, don't be in any rush, let it happen in time and in accordance with Gods will. Just make yourself ready for when the time comes and display confidence around dudes especially that you have dignity toward yourself and that you are principled.