Why Women Become BITTER

(Let's Talk About It) Women can have their soft, gentle, feminine innocence knocked right out of them. From Bad Boys/Girls, to Abusers, to Cheaters, to Users, to Narcissists, the list of can't get rights out there ready to disarm us is endless.

HOW IT BEGINS

As in nature, people may be attracted to that which is opposite of us <------ (which in some cases usually don't work out) as a way to "complete you" and make you feel whole. Your weak, complacent side may often (and naturally) seek out a mate that is strong, unyielding and hardened ... but much to your dismay you soon find that many unyielding, hardened person come with much baggage...and this baggage is usually discharged at the weaker sex. You become safe targets, punching bags, and gullible, trusting guinea pigs who absorb the man's/woman's pain and insecurities and who never fight back. You unwittingly let them devour you out of your faith, trust and love of them.

HOW IT ESCALATES

After being hurt, let down, and disappointed time-after-time (in your relationships), you learn to stop being feminine, weak and trusting.

After being taken advantage of time-after-time, you stop being open, soft and vulnerable. Your hearts bolt shut and become overly cautious and distrustful.

A hardened, unbreakable shell gradually replaces your soft femininity; and soon possess a callous and sometimes contemptuous attitude, an unattached and distanced approach, and a suspicious, untrusting nature.

THE REAL TRUTH IS AT HEART

Unfortunately, deep down inside under this new, rough, hardened exterior lies the true, soft, feminine, beating heart of a damsel still dreaming of her knight. A heart that is all too flexible a heart that is permeable, thin, and easily broken, still looking for that man/woman that will sweep you off your feet, protect you from all the dragons, and lock you safely away in his/hers arms forever after.

If the person in your life, or the person in your past, have made you close your heart, and hide your true feminine emotions, remember that you are only denying yourself the right to be a woman in all of a woman's true glory. You may hide from pain, and may close your hearts in fear of them being bulldozed, but in the end you only hurt yourself.

So go ahead and be that gracious beautiful soft gentle woman that you are. Today you should rejoice in your femininity. A woman's loving heart and tender, impassioned soul is the most beautiful and natural thing on this planet. Without it, this world would be a very ugly place to live in.

And somewhere out there waits someone that would love to slay your dragons! <----- TRUST ME...

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Rihanna Covers Esquire UK July 2012 Issue

(Magazine Cover) Esquire UK gets Rihanna to grace the cover and pose topless for their July 2012 cover along with a super sexy photo spread inside this issue as well.

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Dondria and Bertell 'Ready'

(R&B Video) R&B singer and Texas native Dondria and Bertell came together on a brand new song titled “Ready.” Check out the official video below ---------->

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Bobby V feat. Lil Wayne 'Mirror'

(R&B Music) R&B singer Bobby V has resurfaced with his first official single off  his fifth studio album, titled Dusk Till Dawn, which is scheduled to drop on October 2nd. Bobby V collabs with Lil Wayne once again on a new track titled “Mirror.”

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112 Talks About New Album and Reunion Tour

(R&B News) Word on the street is that R&B group 112 reunites with an album and a reunion tour.....*SHRUGS*

According to Q. Parker, the group has been having conversations about getting back together.

"The relationship with 112 is great. We were actually on the phone talking about a possible reunion tour and maybe an album next year. So for those that want to know if we'll ever do another album, we've actually started conversations about it."

Q has admitted that there is a lot more to be done before fans hear any music from the group.

"For right now, we're just in conversation. The next stage would be recreating the excitement by going into the studio and recording some songs. Once that happens, the process starts to be implemented and then we'll come to that decision if we'll go with a major or independent label."

By all the powers vested in them, I truly hope this will happen. Great music is lost in the R&B industry and we're in dying need of that feel good music.

If you haven't, please go check out Q. Parker's solo album, "The MANual." Led by the single "Show You How," the album is on its way.

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Usher Perform For One-Night In London To Celebrate Looking 4 Myself

(R&B News) Usher set to do it big as he celebrates the release of his much anticipated album "Looking 4 Myself" next month.

R&B singer will grace the stage for a special one-night only engagement the day his album is released in the UK on June 11th.

According to Capital FM, Usher will play the HMV Hammersmith Apollo. He is also due to perform at the Capital FM Summertime Ball on June 9th at Wembley Stadium and will play the iTunes Festival in September.

Tickets for the one nighter at HMV Hammersmith Apollo go on sale at 9am Friday, June 1st.

"Looking 4 Myself" is set to drop on Tuesday, June 12th in the U.S.

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Tony Sunshine: 'All I Need' & 'She's Like The Wind'

(R&B Music) Taking it back with Latino R&B singer Tony Sunshine's All I Need featuring Armageddon, and 'She's Like The Wind' with Lumidee. Full exclusive feature coming soon, with all new music. Stay tuned...

Until then check out this throwback videos ------>

She's Like The Wind'

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Robbie Nova Feat. Maino: 'On The Radio'

(R&B Music) Robbie Nova ------> Presents new single which features Maino titled "ON THE RADIO"

PROD. BY: ROBBIE NOVA

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Picture Of Chris Bosh's Newborn Baby

(SMFH Files) People got odee jokes right now on Bosh's newborn baby. LMAOOOOO...

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Usher’s Reveals New Album Cover

(Album Cover/ Tracklisting)  Peep the album cover for Usher’s new CD titled “Looking 4 Myself” and the tracklisting below -------->

“Can’t Stop Won’t Stop”
“Scream”
“Climax”
“I Care for U”
“Show Me”
“Lemme See” feat. Rick Ross
“Twisted” feat. Pharrell Williams
“Dive”
“What Happened to U”
“Looking 4 Myself” feat. Luke Steele
“Numb”
“Lessons for the Lover”
“Sins of My Father”
“Euphoria”

Deluxe tracklisting after the jump.

“I.F.U.”
“Say the Words”
“2nd Round”
“Hot Thing”

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June 2012 Issue Of ‘Vanity Fair’ Magazine Talks The Last Days Of Whitney Houston

(Magazine) Check out this touching excerpt from part of the article ------->

“The last thing I remember her saying was ‘I just want to love and be loved. I want to love like Jesus did. Unconditionally,’” Tiffanie Dixon, Whitney Houston’s hairdresser, tells contributing editor Mark Seal in June’s Vanity Fair of the last night she spent with the singer. Dixon was with Houston and her alleged boyfriend Ray J (the singer-actor famous for, among other things, being Kim Kardashian’s partner in a 2007 sex tape) at Tru nightclub, where the paparazzi overwhelmed Whitney when she left. She recalls that they returned to the singer’s hotel room to read the Bible. “Her glasses were broken, but she read by holding the little single lens. She had marked pages—Exodus, Mark, and Matthew.”

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Man Dies After Woman Cuts Off His Penis

(SMFH Files) 28 yrs old Cristal Paulette Richardson from Dallas, is facing a murder charge in the death of 34 yr old Cedric Lamont Owens. The crazy bitch is accused of cutting off penis before slitting his throat and stabbing him to death in a motel room.

According to reports, Cristal AKA -----> Lorena Bobbit... booked the room a day earlier and checked in alone.

About 4pm, a security guard told police that he heard a man and woman ‘in a loud verbal and physical disturbance’ in the third-floor room.

When the guard reached the third floor, he saw Lorena ------> OOPS... I mean Cristal walking down the hall naked and covered in blood.
DAMNNNNNN!!!! Shit def got real up in that motel room tho...

After police were called, they were let into the room by the hotel manager and found Cedric with “multiple stab wounds to his upper body, his throat was cut and there was traumatic amputation of the penis and scrotum”, according to medical documents.

Cristal was taken to hospital where she was treated for minor wounds on her hands before being arrested and charged with murder.

After recieving a search warrant of the room, what's found was a large bloody folding knife. Police are still unsure as to what the motive may have been.

SMDamnH at the fact that Christal and Cedric both have criminal records, including felony convictions, according to the Morning News.

Cristal Richardson’s record includes convictions for aggravated assault with a deadly weapon, theft, marijuana possession and drunken driving. <------ Soooooo that nigga ain't know how shorty got down????? ------------------> WAIT!!!! OK NEVER MIND... Read On -------------->

Cedric Owens’ record includes convictions for drug possession, family violence assault and evading arrest.

SMFH at this whole situation right now.

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Omarion Joins Maybach Music Group

(R&B News) The former B2K member signs to Maybach Music Group. Omarion appeared on BET’s “106 & Park” alongside his new boss Rick Ross and MMG labelmates Wale and Meek Mill while it was then announced.

Ricky Ross ranted “Ya’ll make some noise for the newest member of MMG, Omarion,” who also explains how they linked up.

“It really boiled down to the music. He came down to Miami, we got in the studio. He recorded close to a dozen records and I was just so impressed, not to mention the fact he’s an entertainer, songwriter, actor, dancer. I just thought it was a great move and I wanted to see the homie shine.”

The young R&B singer was previously signed to Young Money, which explained why he decided to join Rick Ross’ camp. O chimed in ------> “I think the relationship, bonding with somebody comes first, I’ve been doing this for a long time and God has blessed me. More than anything, I really respect and I really like the way he moves like a boss. It takes one to know one.”

O plans to release an EP and has already shot a video for his first single “Let’s Talk” featuring Rick Ross.

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Hot 97 Summer Jam 2012 Artist Line Up

(Entertaining News) Hot 97 Summer Jam is one of the most hottest & anticipated concerts of the summer and just a few minutes ago, Angie Martinez alongside the rest of the Hot 97 crew announced the full artist line up: Waka Flocka, French Montana, Maino, Tyga, 2 Chainz, Mavado, Jeezy, J.Cole, Trey Songz, Big Sean, Wale, Meek Mill, Rick Ross, Dj Khaled & friends, and last but not least, Nicki Minaj. Pusha T, Kendrick Lamar, School Boy Q, Big KRIT, ASAP Rocky & Fred The Godson are set to perform during the The Pre-Show Summer Jam Festival Village.

Y'all already know there's going to be a lot of surprise guests joining the stage. But the question is ----------------> Who are you looking forward to see perform at Hot 97 Summer Jam 2012???

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Tank "This Is How I Feel" Album Snippet

(R&B Spotlight) Tank’s This is How I Feel is only a week away the R&B singer/producer has released a collection of snippets from the entire album. The preview includes full versions of his previously released singles

http://soundcloud.com/atlanticrecords/sets/tank-this-is-how-i-feel-album

Bobby Brown: I'm Not The Reason She's Gone

(Entertaining News) Bobby Brown has finally opened up about the death of Whitney Houston during a one-on-one interview with Matt Lauer on the “Today” show. The New Edition singer, who recalled hearing of her passing through his bandmate Ralph Tresvant.

Bobby said “I just started crying, you never expect someone close to you to just die. It was really hard.”

The toxicology report concluded that Houston died from accidental drowning and had cocaine in her system at the time of death, which shocked Bobby Brown. “I was hurt. Me being off of narcotics for the last seven years, I didn’t know that she was struggling with it, but at the same time, it’s a hard fight to maintain sobriety that way.”

He never blamed himself for her death, although he wonders what could have been done differently.

“Maybe I coulda done something different to ensure that she had a longer life,but you have to want it, you know? Some things just happen. God probably just needed her for the choir up there in heaven and that’s the biggest voice you have.”

Despite those who say he contributed to her death, he says drugs were a part of her life before he met her. “I didn’t get high on narcotics before I met Whitney. I smoked weed, I drank beer, but no, I wasn’t the one that got Whitney on drugs. I’m not the reason she’s gone.”

Their 2005 reality show “Being Bobby Brown” which publicly showed their relationship. “It makes me feel terrible, but I know differently. If anyone ever knew us, if anybody ever spent time around us instead of time looking through the bubble, they would know how we felt about each other. The reality show gave us a wake-up because we were able to see what other people were saying about us. We were able to see that our drug use had affected our relationship, had affected the love that we felt for each other.”

I know that man will always have love for his ex-wife. “I had 14 beautiful, beautiful years with that woman. I loved that woman with everything that I am and I believed she loved me the same way, even though I’m getting married soon, my fiancée knows how I felt about that woman, my kids know how I felt about Whitney, that’s no secret. I was in love with her deeply.”

And I agree 110% of what Bobby has said and feel. Despite what everyone else may feel. People need to look beyond Whitney's "good girl" image and come to realization that she just may have been on drugs prior and his bad boy image has nothing to do with it.

We will all miss and love her deeply.

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Ray J Pens $1 Million Deal To Be Princereigns Spokesmodel

(Entertaining News) R&B singer/actor Ray J inks $1 million to be a spokesmodel for shaving serum: Princereigns Ingrown Hair Serum.

Ray J says in a promo video ------> "If you got any kind of ingrown hairs. If you just want keep it smooth, this is what it is."

Princereigns combines only all-natural ingredients such as aloe vera, eucalyptus, chamomile, sage, lavender, vitamin E and citrus oils to create a nutrient-rich blend. The company has been perfecting their product for over 20 years, which is cosigned by Oprah Winfrey.

Princereigns removes blemishes quickly without clogging pores and clears acne, leaving skin smooth and blemish free.

The product is set to officially launch at the upcoming 2012 Billboard Awards in Las Vegas, Nevada.
In addition, Ray J and Sophie Monk have teamed up for a promotional shoot for Prince Reigns.
The shaving serum,  retails at just over $20 in retail.

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